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"CHERISH EVERY MOMENT" IS A LIE. HOW CAN BRANDS HELP?
Jun 2, 2025

Us marketers love a wholesome story, don’t we? Baby smiles, pastel nurseries, parents glowing with love, googoo gaagaa. But speak to many parents of a child under 1 and you’ll hear something different. Behind those cooing Instagram stories lies an emotional minefield, and the one word that keeps coming up isn’t “joy”, it’s loneliness. For many new parents, “cherish every moment” is a lie.

Not talked-about, not easily photographed - but real, and growing. This cultural silence creates strategic opportunities for brands who are willing to confront emotional discomfort and earn a level of consumer trust that can’t be bought, only felt.

The human truth: new parents are lonelier than they ever expected, and too ashamed to admit it.

Becoming a parent upends your identity. Your social world collapses into 2am feeds and nappy changes. You go entire days without adult conversation, then doom scroll through idealised images of others apparently “thriving.” The result is an isolation, shame, and a sense that you’re failing at the very thing everyone else seems to love.

One mother puts it plainly: “New motherhood was the loneliest time of my life”. She’s not alone.

  • Over 50% of new mums in the UK say they feel “friendless” after birth
  • 68% say they feel cut off from friends and family
  • 1 in 3 report chronic loneliness, a figure climbing every year

This is a cultural fault line. And these are three of the biggest reasons why it matters.

First, we see social fabric fraying. Communities are thinner, and grandparents are often hours away. Men are told to “man up” and women are told to smile through it. The pandemic only accelerated this atomisation. New parents, especially mums, are doing the hardest job in the world with less support and more pressure than ever.

Second, mental health is a breaking point. Loneliness isn’t benign or singular. It doubles the risk of postnatal depression and anxiety. In fact, it’s as dangerous to physical health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So, brands in wellness, healthcare, or lifestyle - if you’re not thinking about this, you’re asleep at the wheel.

 Finally, culture is ripe for reckoning. A new generation of parents are rejecting the #Blessed façade. They want realness, relatability and relief. This is a window for brands to show up - not with solutions, but with solidarity, with togetherness. The brands that do will earn something money can’t buy - that’s emotional equity.

 Psychologists call the identity shift into motherhood “matrescence.” It’s as disruptive as puberty, but with less support, no roadmap, and society expecting you to love every bloody second of it. 

  • You lose sleep
  • You lose autonomy
  • You lose adult conversation

And yet, you’re expected to glow.

When that picture is painted, it’s clear that the mismatch between how it feels and how it’s “supposed to feel” is the root of loneliness.

New parents’ behavioural reality is they’re the loneliest busy people. New parents are never alone, but always lonely. A baby is constant company, but not the kind that talks back. Social time becomes logistical hell, friends drift and work culture doesn’t flex. Even romantic partners can feel like they become ‘co-workers’ in this chaos.

Brands need to understand this isn’t a niche problem. It’s a widespread, under-addressed emotional void. And it’s a void that’s crying out for better storytelling, better support, and better human understanding. Here’s three brands who could own this truth and win big.

First, Pampers / Johnson’s / any type of nappy or baby product. No s**t right? But it’s not a topic that’s been tackled, even in the very category that should be owning it.

Enough with soft-focus perfection. Imagine work that says “for every baby born, a parent is too. And sometimes, it’s f**king hard.”. Late-night content drops, real parent confessionals, “you’re not alone” packs. The brand message transforms towards not just protecting babies, but protecting sanity.

Second, any social app for parents. They’re already connecting mums and dads, but they could own the narrative of loneliness, turning their user data into cultural insights to lead a national conversation to be the brand that broke the silence.

Finally (for this list anyway), coffee shop brands. It might sound odd, but loneliness’ kryptonite is connection. Costa, Cafe Nero, etc could own the first parent-friendly space outside the home with events like crybaby coffee hours. Build a niche (but not so niche) community one cup at a time. 

Every marketing playbook says the same thing, emotional connection matters. Yet most brands still avoid emotions that are messy, lonely and hard to frame in a storyboard. The ones brave enough to name the hard stuff, and stand by consumers during it, become part of their life story.

The loneliest people aren’t looking for solutions, they just want to be seen.

As marketers, we’re in the business of influence, but influence must start with insight. This isn’t a niche issue, it’s a cultural blind spot, and it’s time to see it for what it is. If a brand can’t say “we see you”, it’ll soon be replaced by one that can.

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